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Do Not Lose Heart – We Each Have Sovereignty!

Talk about a firehose of information, disinformation, subterfuge and attack in a compressed period of time! How many of us have had a hard time just functioning? Anyone want to crawl back into bed and put the covers over your head?

I have had those moments – and sometimes that is all that we might be capable of doing. I often find myself responding by taking a deep, deep breath and finding something physical to do – organizing the house, cleaning, walking, yoga – anything that gets me out of the mind and into the body.

As I have felt the physical, emotional and intellectual impact of all that is going on and the challenge in absorbing or digesting it all (haven’t we all?), I have also wondered what I could offer through this blog to provide some inspiration or hope to those of you who honour me with reading it, to remind us all to not lose heart.

I had nothin’.

That is… until seeing the waves of Canadian pride in the moment our sovereignty has been threatened. Those-that-be in the US, saw fit to “poke the bear”, thinking Canadians would slumber through the threat or quietly acquiesce to the bullying, unnecessary and made-up demands.

But no. Canadians, on the whole, are a somewhat humble lot. That humility may have been misinterpreted as subservience or not caring. I have heard it said, we may be slow to anger, but once you get us riled up, watch out! (I do have to note, for those who know me, this is also a personal description.) We might have some infighting in the Canadian family, but attack us from the outside, and we close ranks.

It is not just the majority of Canadian political leaders who are providing a clear and coherent response. Canadians everywhere are sharing our deep sorrow at the loss of a friend, our anger at and disappointment in the US’s threats and actions (and yes, to my US friends, we know more than half of your country is as distraught as we are – thank you for that) and we are standing our ground, loudly declaring our sovereignty. Across the country, people are asking what goods are produced in Canada and what the alternatives are to American products on our store shelves. For the moment, there is a greater sense of kindness with each other on online platforms.

Sovereignty, friends! Every single one of us has personal sovereignty, no matter where we live or what country we live in – over our thoughts, our choices, our actions. Even if it does not feel like much, a decision to buy Canadian where and how we can is an act of rebellion. Who we spend our time with. Who we reach out to. Acts of sovereignty.

Living our lives as fully as is possible amidst the chaos is a radical act. Creating and co-creating – art, poetry, prose, meals are all acts of rebellion – and also of love. Let’s keep at it in whatever ways we can, wherever and whenever we can. Do not lose heart. Stand in your sovereignty and I will stand in mine. Let’s see and acknowledge each other – quietly or loudly. Do not lose heart.

Ordinarily I don’t post political content on this blog site. However, both our Prime Minister Justin Trudeau and our former deputy Prime Minister Chrystia Freeland have responded to tariff threats and they each, in their own way, capture what most ordinary Canadians are thinking and feeling and why we have stepped up our pride and sovereignty. If you are Canadian, you will resonate with the sentiments. If you are not Canadian, you will get some insight into what we are made of and why, when challenged, we rise to the promise in our National Anthem.

O Canada!
Our home and native land!
True patriot love in all of us command.
With glowing hearts, we see thee rise,
The True North strong and free!
From far and wide,
O Canada, we stand on guard for thee.
God keep our land glorious and free!
O Canada, we stand on guard for thee.

Tremulous Times Call for Radical Acts – of Kindness, Compassion, Empathy and Love

STOP. Right now! Breathe….

Now, breathe more deeply – with each breath, notice the sensation of the breath filling your lungs and the life-giving oxygen moving throughout your body.

Now that you have paused and I have your attention, how are you feeling? Yes, really.  How are you feeling, right now? You are allowed to notice what is true for you, to embrace the fullness of who you are.

Tremulous Times

We are living in tremulous times. I do not have to share the litany of reasons why this is true. All of us who are paying even a little bit of attention – we all know them. Many of us knew it would be bad but the head-spinning velocity at which it is all coming at us can feel and be destabilizing. There are many who say that this is the goal – to overwhelm so much so that we lose hope, the ability to act, that we sink deeper into despair and feel completely disempowered.

For those of us who are empaths, we feel it all, including all that is happening to people, the earth, climate and the environment, in places near to and far from us. It can be debilitating. I know some are deeply challenged and it is all they can do to make it through a day.

For others of us, we have more choice. We can feed this energy and the energies that are indicative of a complete disregard for the sacredness of humanity and all living, sentient beings – or we can make a different choice, even on the days when it feels like our entire body is sludge, being dragged through clay or quicksand.

Radical Acts

Tremulous times call for radical acts – of kindness, compassion, empathy and love – to and for ourselves and to and for others, even as we secure our boundaries around what we are willing to let in and what we are not willing to have thrust upon us.

Kindness, compassion, empathy and love could be to and for the people directly around us or in our circles and it could be for anyone, anywhere on the globe who is need of it, in need of being seen, heard and acknowledged.

Amplify What is Good, Right and Healing in and for the World

It also means giving ourselves permission to experience joy and delight. To nurture our bodies, minds and souls for health and wellbeing and to be resourced against the assault on our sensibilities. It is not to turn a blind eye to what is happening in the world but it is to see and understand what is and is not within our control and to continue to action what is, no matter how small or insignificant it may feel. We often underestimate the power of small acts and actions and we do not know the full scope of who and what is in league with us in these choices. We may not be aware of how we can contribute to amplifying others actions and intentions that will help us all find our way out of the chaos of this present time.

Let’s do it for ourselves, for our loved ones and for those who are currently incapacitated in being able to do it for themselves. Let these be the radical acts that take root in a world that asks us to rise to the challenge of these times in whatever ways we are capable of. Kindness. Compassion. Empathy. Love.

Rumi – There is a Field…. I Will Meet You There

As Rumi has said, there is a field…. I will meet you there – in whatever ways I can: physically, emotionally, energetically, spiritually – and we will amplify the light and healing that is already also at work in the world.

Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing,
There is a field. I’ll meet you there.
When the soul lies down in that grass,
The world is too full to talk about.
Ideas, language, even the phrase 
each other
Doesn’t make any sense.